దంపతుల మధ్య విడాకులకు దారితీసే పరిస్థితులు ఏంటి? - what are the reasons behind couples breakup
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Published : 04/10/2021 12:54 IST

దంపతుల మధ్య విడాకులకు దారితీసే పరిస్థితులు ఏంటి?

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1. మూడో వ్యక్తి ప్రవేశించడం
somu
Leave the egos, Listen to partner, Answer to partner, Be responsible, Patience, Give them support
Murahari Gadde
okarimeeda okaraki nammakam leka povatam. And concern lekapovatam.
Varalakshmi Yerramsetti
DOWRY HARASSMENT.
srinivas
Egoism
pushpasree ponnuru
Both are having different opinions on the issues and lack of compromise. Mainly the reason for divorce is Ego feeling. Some people even they want to take divorce, they are living in the same house with out talking to each other for the sake of Society.
Sreenivas Rudra
understanding sariga leka povadam and okarikoaru time spend cheyeleka povadam
Raghavendra Prasad Pathipati
UNDERSTANDING .....EGO...PARENTS INTERFEARENCE...
satyanarayanarao spr saladi
Bharya , Bhartha madhya vidakulaku daariteesevi mukhyam ga Egos & iddaram okate ane bhavana lekapovatam, okari vunnathini marokaru thamadiga feel avvalekapovatam. 3rd persons involve avatam. paina cheppina vatilo kchitam ga yedo oka karanam valle vidakulu ane thought veluguloki vasthundi. kaalam annitiki samadhanam cheputundi, yevarayina vidakulu teesukovalanukunevaru, oka samvatsaram dooramga vundi, vidakulani post pone cheyandi aa year ki, smayam teesukondi...meeku vachina samasyalu , appardhalu yentha chinnavo kalam gadichekoddi meeku ardhamavuthayi. one year taruvatha kooda meeku ade cheyyalanipiste ika apevarevaru vundaru. kaani okati gurthunchukondi, mee madhya moodo vyaktini raneeyakandi, yevari mee manaspardhalu teleeneyakandi. 3rd person varaku vishayam velte, meekunna ego ki ajyam posinatlavutundi. ade mee iddari madheye vunte , okasari kanunte marokasari ayyo mana manishe kada , poniley aa bhavana vuntundi. khsaminche avakasaalu yekkuva vuntayi. dayachesi yevarikayina vidakulu teesukovali anipiste, manaspardhalani meelone vunchukoni, 3rd person varaku vellakunda, one year separate ga vundi choodandi, kachitam ga mee alochanallo marpu vasthundi. Samantha & Naga Chatanya iddaru chakkati janta, naaku valla vishayam telisina ventane, oka sreyobhilashiga , andaru bagundali ane manasunna manishiga vallaki yee salaha cheppalani chala anipinchindi. may be yee article prachurinchabadi, valla varaku velite, nenu cheppalanukunde okkate, ippatiki michinpiyindi ledu, okkasari rethink chesukondi, chakkati noorella jeevitanni vrudha chesukokandi, kalisi vundatam lo vunna anandanni vadukulokandi. oka year dooramga vundandi, moodo vyakthini mee vishayallo kalipinchukoneekandi. swachamaina prema doramayite vunde badha matallo cheppalenidhi, adi manasunna manishiki kallallo kanipistundi. Samantha , i can feel your pain through your eyes and i pray God to fix any issues that you may have with your husband and make you both together again and wish to have a wonderful time back again for you dear. neeku naaku yelanti sambdham ledu, but i feel you and your pain in my heart, yee jjanmalo kanunna, idedo vere janma sambandham kavochu. Thanks, Kalyani Pulleti/Thota.
Kalyani
No Understanding, Ego problems, No respect each other and No love
YNSS Ganesh
cheating (illegal affairs), drinking habits & drugs, ego clashes, economic disparities, Transparency from both sides, over interference (lack of personal space & suffocation), lack of respect and trust for each other, lack of discussion from both sides to solve the problem for certain issues piling up that discomfort and carrying it forward ultimately leads to breakage of relation at a certain point
siri chandana
when one of the partners is not ready to take the responsibility, no emotional bonding with the family, doesn't want to do hard work, too selfish to care him/her self only, then they cannot exist in the family for the long run.
Ambica
Mainly misunderstanding, Egoism, showing differences in the cadre of jobs, Spending of time with Wife/Children/family, Taking meal either lunch or dinner with family members, avoid superiority and inferiority complex, giving respect from both sides
A VAIDEHI
Over expectation
sasasasas
These days Women are responsible for separation for 99% of the time. Emotional Imbalance, Impractical mindset, becoming scapegoat in the hands of selfish parents, financial independence, Imported culture, comparison with others - are the attributes making them give a damn care about matrimonial relations. An increase in false court cases is the yield of all these attributes. Finally, By the time they realize the reality, time is making them to become preachers, customers of pubs in the city and finally leading to idols of frustration. False culture of corporate world and money will not give the true life unless they realize the values.
Ashok Kumar
SUSPICION, PARENTS FREQUENT INTERFERENCE, DOWRY DEMAND, HUSBANDS BAD VICES, INFERIORITY COMPLEX OF ONE OF THE SPOUSES, TELLING LIES BEFORE MARRIAGE, ILLEGAL CONTACTS
N S V K Prasad
misunderstanding, trust break
AMARNATH RAMAYANAM
misunderstanding
mad
Breaching personal boundaries, mistrust, being disrespectful, dishonesty, dirtiness, not owning up to their own mistakes, lack of character in one or both parties, abuse, not having a life of their own
Sri Harsha
1. Ego - Why should I get low in front of the spouse. 2. Digging out old issues. - Many times wife or husband bring out old issues to defend themselves when they are losing a fight with their spouse. 3. Lack of confidence on spouse - Many couples do not have complete confidence in each other due to many reasons. 4. Giving unnecessary importance to others than spouse - Many couples give unnecessary importance to outsiders than their spouses.
Ram Sundar
నా అభిప్రాయం ఏంటంటే భర్త తన భార్యని ఒక మనిషి.. తనకి కొన్ని అభిప్రాయాలు ఉంటాయని అనుకోడు. నేను చెప్పినట్లు వినాలనే ధోరణిలో ఉంటాడు. ఇది నాకు కలిగిన అనుభవం.
G. SUBBA LAKSHMI
Actually wife and husband bond depend on understanding and belief. Reasons. Miscommunication, money management, misunderstanding, sex relation-stability, family-related issues -child caring and family caring and love
raghavendar
answering Swathi's post.. girl parents are more selfish in the current age and misguiding their own daughters for sake of their safety and security...In today's times, this is the MAJOR reason, around 70-80% cases... then Girls demanding too much from husbands, they need this or that, shopping, gifts, unnecessary things, vacations...I do not see many demands from the boy side, overall western culture, imported culture, our own Indian people spoiled our marriage system and values, ethics in today's times
prjana
bitter truth is being a women i am sorry to say this ( i personally affected ) , girl parents are more selfish in current age and misguiding their own daughters for sake of their safety and security ( as their daughters are earning and financially self dependent). i am too attached to my parents , i lost a caring and lovable husband , because of arrogance and immaturity my daughter became a fatherless child. i realised only job is not enough for women especially when we have kids. i am reason of this currently no chance of geeting back my husband because i hurted him so much. once i thought my parents and elder sister are everything but i lost everything because of my egoistic selfish parents and sister.
swathi
జీవన విధానం అందరిది ఒకేలా ఉండదు. ప్రతి ఒక్కరు తమ జీవితాన్ని ఇతరులతో పోల్చుకుంటారు. ప్రతి భర్త/భార్య తాను చేసుకునే వారుఇలా ఉండాలి.. పద్ధతిగా మాట్లాడాలి ఇలా ఎన్నో.. ప్రతి విషయాన్ని బలంగా మనసులో ఉహించుకుంటారు. తన భర్త/భార్య సినిమాల్లో చూపించినట్టు ఉండటం లేదు అని పోల్చుకుంటారు. ఎప్పుడైతే పోల్చుకోవడం మొదలు పెట్టారో అదే విడిపోవడానికి కారణం అవుతుంది. సినిమాల్లో చూపించే భార్య/భర్త విషయాలు అన్ని బూటకం. వాటిని చూసి మీ కాపురం బాగా ఉంటుంది అని అనుకోకండి. వాటిని మీ జీవితంలో అమలు పరచకండి. నీ భర్త/భార్యతో మంచిగా మాట్లాడండి. తన అవసరాలు ఏంటో తెలుసుకోవాలి. మూడో వ్యక్తికి మీ విషయాలు చెప్తే అలుసు అయ్యేది మీరే. చివరిగా భార్య/భర్త ఎవరైనా చెడుగా ప్రవర్తిస్తుంటే విడిపోవడం మంచిది. ... ఎప్పుడైతే భార్య/భర్త విషయంలో పంచాయితీ జరిగితే ఆ కాపురం ఎప్పటికీ కలిసి ఉండదు.
BK SATYA
Ego
B. S. SAI BABA
freedom of life
santhu
Involvement of third person and parents influence
santosh
Assuming that you can change a person after marriage instead of accepting and respecting each other's strengths and weaknesses. Support who they are, communicate openly, and compliment each other. It's not easy some days but keeps at it.
Sujatha P Blackstone
Feeling superior about themselves than their partner.
Sreelakshmi
పెళ్లికి ముందు అమ్మాయి లేదా అబ్బాయిలకు ఉన్న మెంటల్ లేదా ఫిజికల్ ఆరోగ్య సమస్యలను దాచి పెట్టడం. అబద్ధాలు, అనుమానాలు, ఆధిపత్య ధోరణి, అహంకారం. కుటుంబంలో ఈ మధ్య కాలంలో అత్త, ఆడపడుచుల ఆధిపత్య ధోరణి కొత్తగా వెళ్లైన అమ్మాయిలకు చాలా ఇబ్బందిగా ఉంటోంది. ఆ సమయంలో తన భర్త సపోర్ట్ చాలా అవసరం. అలా లేని సందర్భంలో గొడవలు వస్తున్నాయి. అవి విడాకులకు కారణమవుతున్నాయి.
Durga Swathi
I feel that money and job are the main factors. And also the family background of both families should be liked by each other. I saw a husband harassing his wife for getting a highly paid job. He treats his wife as an earning machine.
Harini
Missing any of the below points between the couples may lead to divorce 1. One of them or both not open to communication 2. Prolonged fights for weeks, months which will eventually build gap between the couples 3. Not having respect and care for each other 4. Not having agreeable sex intimacy
Madhu
Egos, comparisons, misunderstandings and not respecting each other views. These are main points to consider
Ramakrishna Yarakala
Age gap, lack of perfect understanding, superiority complex, maintenance of elder parents vice versa finally illegal human relations vice versa.
NAGESWARA RAO SARVA
1) Chadilu vinatam adi nammatam - acharinchatam 2) Money - bhagaswamiki teliyakunda money karchu pettatam / leda vere vallaki ivvatam. 3) Communication problem - wife and husband sariga communicate chesukoka povatam
Ramesh
No time to each other
రాధిక
Money, and communication, no time
Raghu
They have no time for each other, and communication.
Ramya
ఒకరి గురించి ఒకరు తెలుసుకోవాలనె తాపత్రయం. In Life, everything should be slow & study. How we accept our parents, our body, or face. We need to accept our life partner, on slowly you will find a good person him/her.
$h!v@
not able to understand situation and allowing third person, either wife side nor husband side. This is the main reason.
రాంబాబు యన్
ego, male domination, jelous, and impatience
A VAIDEHI
Mainly misunderstanding, ego, impatience and male domination ( if he is in higher position rather than her wife )
A VAIDEHI
Ego factors major reason for split these days. One of the partners must adjust which is lacking nowadays. Larger impacts of divorce, couples not able to understand.
Bhanu Chandar Pilli
Communication problem
Rasi
1. Domination of partner family members. 2. not respecting individual professions and career growth 3. comparing with others.
shilpa
Partner Parentes over-action valla ekkuva Family lu Divorce avutunnai
Ravindra Reddy

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